I want to share this with you all because it is something. I can't link to the original post, but I want to share the gist of it:
"There are some things you can't ask your wife to do."
So sayeth my boyfriend's frat brother. I love him as much as I can love a man that I don't respect, but his cheating is so casual that it drives me out of my mind. He feels his cheating is justified because "there are some things you can't ask your wife to do. And even if you did and she did it, she couldn't be your wife anymore."
So, basically her boyfriend's frat brother boldly cheats on his wife in order to be serviced in a certain way. He's afraid to let his wife in on a fetish he has and also he says that if he found that his wife was into what he's into, she is no longer fit to raise his kids, let alone be his wife.
As the thread progresses, turns out dude is a scat fetishist. Doo doo brown man.
Yeah.
ETA: The friend found out about the fetish because scat dude used the friend's laptop and when he gave it back, he found all this shit (damn near literally) in the browser history. If he's so careless about that, more than likely his wife already knows and is plotting a way out of there.